Is it possible to have a love/hate relationship with the holidays? I think so. Let’s get the negative out of the way: commercialism runs rampant, stress levels increase, we overeat and overindulge and somehow, time spent with our families isn’t exactly the way we envisioned it after watching The Walton’s Christmas Special.

The commercialism alone can be a major impediment, especially during these trying economic times. We’re being encouraged to “spend” as if we haven’t spent enough bailing out these huge corporations! Merry Christmas, Fannie Mae! We shouldn’t have to spend in order to aid our economy at this point. We should be concerned about the people who have been outspending us for many years and with many millions of dollars.

But okay - enough of the negative. This is a positive news site after all! What I’m advocating is a holiday of thanks giving…and not just Thanksgiving! Every day between Thanksgiving and Christmas (or whatever holiday you choose to celebrate) give thanks to one aspect of your life daily.

Today I’m grateful for the quiet in my neighborhood. I live in a town near the sea and at night, it becomes so quiet. It really calms me and helps me think clearly. When I sleep, I sleep soundly and I feel safe. My soul enjoys the silence.

Get the drift? It doesn’t have to be major. Choose something seemingly small to celebrate. Move toward the “high ticket items” like loved ones and homes, etc. But for the next few weeks, be grateful. You’ll be amazed how this alone transforms your life and thinking.

Remember: one small gratitude a day!

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If you have any thanks you’d like to give, send it our way!